That was the voice in Dr Jessica Houston’s head for years. From the outside, she looked successful. On the inside, she was carrying far more than anyone could see: the fear of ever being broke again, the need to be liked, and a habit of saying yes to everyone except herself.
Perhaps you know that voice too. Many high achievers do. It tells you that slowing down is risky, that saying no will make people think less of you, and that the moment you reach the top of one mountain, the next one is already waiting. And because we hear it every day, we rarely stop to ask whether it is actually telling us the truth.
In this conversation, Jessica and I explore how to hear what we are really telling ourselves, how to challenge it, and how to build success that supports your life rather than competes with it.
In this episode, you’ll discover how to:
• Recognise the hidden beliefs behind overachievement, people-pleasing and the pressure to keep proving yourself, so you can make decisions based on what truly matters to you.
• Challenge recurring negative thoughts by writing them down, questioning their accuracy and coaching yourself through difficult moments, instead of letting rejection or self-doubt dictate your actions.
• Create a sustainable self-care practice and set healthier boundaries, so you can protect your energy, reduce overwhelm and pursue meaningful growth without sacrificing your wellbeing.
Press play to change your relationship with your inner dialogue and create a version of success that truly serves you.
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KEY POINTS AND TIMESTAMPS:
01:00 - Successful on Paper, Struggling Inside
04:25 - The Voices Behind Overachievement and People-Pleasing
07:35 - Four Filters for Valuing Your Yes
10:38 - Turning Awareness Into Everyday Decisions
11:44 - Writing Down and Challenging Your Thoughts
14:48 - Missing It and Building the Muscle
17:18 - Talking to Yourself From the Outside
21:53 - The Thought Is Not the Decision
23:39 - Self-I-Care Time
26:11 - Personal Development and Advice to Her Younger Self
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MEMORABLE QUOTE:
“Internal growth precedes external growth.”
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VALUABLE RESOURCES:
Website: https://drjessicahouston.com/
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